Better Sex: How to Spice Up Your Love Life Today - Tips and Tricks to Excitement

Improve Your Love Life: Secrets Men Need To Know

Bob Reno — Sun, 20 Apr 2008 02:41:00 +0000

What does any man need to know about improving his love life? Here's more from the LA Chronicle:

All men strive to provide their partner with the best possible qualities in a relationship. This is quite natural, the problem being though, do you know how?

Many men fail when it comes to applying the right techniques, from approaching women to keeping a girlfriend entertained, men constantly around the world are lacking the fundamental steps.

Making a women sexually addicted to you isn't as hard as you may think, the problem is males can lack confidence and simply take the wrong approach. In many ways this can take its toll on the relationship and in some cases even cause females to look elsewhere.

As a rule women don't generally go for looks alone, how a man acts, behaves and treats a lady is usually far more powerful in the long run, some men acquire this talent naturally, whilst the majority lag behind, this can cause frustration and in some cases depression and relationship problems.

Spring clean your love life

Bob Reno — Sun, 20 Apr 2008 02:38:00 +0000

Is there any better time of year to give your love life an overhaul than Spring? Not according to this article in Canoe:

"Everything in life has an expiry date."

So says author and lecturer Paul Talbot. And he's right. Whether it's milk or relationships, sometimes you just have to let it go to clear the space for something new.

And applying some of the principles in Talbot's book, Clear the Clutter and Simplify Your Life can help you sort through your love life, to jettison what's not working and concentrate on what is.

In his seminars and workshops, the British-born, Vancouver-based Talbot teaches people how to simplify their lives in six basic areas: household, lifestyle, career, health, finance and relationships. "Clutter has a domino effect," says Talbot, who calls himself "a clutter therapist."

Improve Your Sex Life: Secrets of Making a Woman Sexually Addicted to You

Bob Reno — Wed, 16 Apr 2008 08:07:00 +0000

A review of the hottest (and we do mean HOTTEST!) new ebook out there Secrets of Sexual Addictions:

This ebook is definitely a “must read” for ANY male that wants to learn how to seduce, entice and arouse a woman. Whether you are single or married, regardless of how long you have been in a relationship this is an essential reference.

As a woman, I was taken on a journey while reading every step of this book; from the essentials of intimacy, sensuality, kissing, building intensity, arousing, touching, intercourse, orgasms and other steps. I believe it really addresses the key issues of how a woman wants to be treated, touched and stimulated. If it is arousing for a woman to read, I can only imagine how it would feel to be with a man who has mastered these suggestions to the extent that it can be expressed naturally! While this ebook is not a manual to teach you to “get off”, I believe it goes beyond the mechanics of it. I can certainly see how a woman would never get enough of a man that is able to be respectful and erotic as those who would follow these very powerful ebook suggestions.

Danielle

http://www.SecretsOfSexualAddictions.com

10 Ways To Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship - by Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb

Bob Reno — Mon, 24 Mar 2008 22:16:00 +0000

10 Ways To Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship
By Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips.

Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’thave the magic and romance that it once had?

You’re not alone.

Living with the same partner for a long time can become stable and comfortable, and, as a result, can also kill the spark that made your relationship so special in the first place.

Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to reignite that magic:

1. SEND THEM A UNIQUE GIFT

Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner's workplace, such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so
they receive it in the middle of a busy day.

2. BECOME KIDS AGAIN

If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from their childhood.

3. FUN WITH WATER

On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out and throw one to your partner and then have a huge water fight.

4. A MASSAGE WITH A TWIST

Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an
appointment call: (Your Phone Number)

5. BRING BACK CHILDHOOD MEMORIES

Contact your partner's family and ask if there was anything she always wanted when she was a little girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you
were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wanted. You can do this for your man too.

6. STARE AT THE CLOUDS

Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie with your partner and look up at the clouds.

7. WALK ALONG THE BEACH

Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you watch the sun go down.

8. ORGANIZE A PICNIC ON A WARM SUMMER’S NIGHT

Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up at the stars together.

9. SHOW YOU’RE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR PARTNER

Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find it, with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming into my life."

10. SPICE UP YOUR LOVEMAKING

Probably the most profound way to rekindle the romance in your relationship is to spice up your lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little gift after you make love, try a new position, learn to give your partner a sensual massage before or
after, or just spend some time staring into each other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before making love.

Many people underestimate the affect passionate and intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you spice it up, chances are you and your partner will naturally do romantic things for each other. Why? Because passionate lovemaking connects two people in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing else can.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. To read more, visit: 500LovemakingTips.com

Turn Your Sex Fantasy Into a Reality

Bob Reno — Sat, 22 Mar 2008 13:04:00 +0000

Can talking about your sexual fantasies help you in the bedroom? Here's an interesting take on the subject from IOL:

In our too-much-information world, we assume that an honest relationship should include disclosing intimate desires. But must we swap every thought that flits into our mind? I have the urge to tell, but not the courage (yet). And will confessing my fantasies usher in deeper understanding and better sex? It could go badly, too. (Will he wonder if I'm thinking about Ranger Rick instead of him?)
Deciding to open up isn't an easy call.
"Fantasising is a way to explore your sexuality that's free of consequence," says Jenny Bivona, doctoral candidate in clinical psychology.
"Physiologically, erotic imagery typically increases desire and speeds arousal." For the uninhibited, discussing erotic imagery is a quick way to get in the mood.
"Some couples love to discuss their fantasies," says Dr Stella Resnick, a clinical psychologist. "They find it a turn-on. It's playful and flirtatious, which is great for sex."
But will Steve find it playful and flirtatious that, during our relationship, I've been mauled by other men? Will my stories make him doubt my attraction to him?
"My husband is stung by any fantasies I mention," says my friend J, a writer. "But it's not like I'm actually going to have sex with Tiger Woods! In the spirit of try, try again, I revealed another: being with two men at once. He gaped at me like he wanted to leap out of bed."
The difference between playful and threatening depends on your partner and your relationship, explains Dr Sarah E Wright, expert on sexual fantasies. Her advice: "Before you share, ask, 'Do I trust my partner? Does he respect me?'" Logic might dictate that open-minded, confident, sexually informed men would be most receptive.

Basic Tips to Improve Your Sex Life

Bob Reno — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 21:10:00 +0000

Does improving your sex life have to be difficult? No! Here are some simple tips from Looking Good - Feeling Great:

1. Play with sex toys. A varied selection of good sex toys can be a great way to add some spice to your sex life. And these days, it's even possible to find a range of sex toys stores online that will deliver straight to your home in discreet packaging.

2. Dress up. This may seem a bit too kinky - but if it's going to improve your sex life, what have you got to lose? Chat to your partner about your sexual fantasies. Whether it's bondage or cowboys-and-Indians, you could find the answer to your sex life woes.

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What Men Really Want From Love: How to Capitvate a Man

Bob Reno — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 21:52:00 +0000

Did you know ... that you as a woman, by virtue of your femininity, have in your hands the delicious power to make a man fall in love with you, influence a man to your way of thinking, bring him to his knees, make him want to spend his life with you -- and want to fulfill your every desire? Here's more about "The Woman Men Adore ... and Never Want To Leave" by Licensed Professional Counselor Bob Grant:

The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave is the "first and last of its kind” relationship book that will show you how to completely understand men once and for all – and use that understanding to create the relationship of your dreams -- not in months or years, but immediately. That is why this is the last book on man-woman relationships that you’ll ever need to read. You’ll get everything you need right in this book to accomplish your relationship goals and completely change your life.

You've probably heard of best-selling books like "Men are from Mars, Women are From Venus" and "He's Just Not That Into You." Unlike those books and other relationship books on the market that point to the glaring differences between men and women ("Tell me something I didn't know!") The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave goes a step further and teaches you how to use those differences to your utmost advantage.

When you master the principles I teach in The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave, men won't be able to resist you, they'll do your bidding, and will feel powerless around you. Best of all, they're going to love every minute of it. Everybody wins!

FOXSexpert: Can You Eat Your Way to Better Sex?

Bob Reno — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 21:05:00 +0000

There are many ways to improve your sex life. Apparently one of them is to change what you eat. Let's see what Fox News "Sexpert" Yvonne K. Fulbright has to say about the sex-ubject, I mean subject of better sex:

For centuries, humans have been fascinated by supposed links between certain substances and one’s sex drive, sexual performance and sexual desire. Yet only recently we’ve really been able to confirm what actually works and why.

While there’s no magical meal plan for easily enhancing sexual pleasure or attaining orgasm, you definitely can impact your sexual energy by incorporating certain ingredients into your diet. So here are a few do’s and don’ts when it comes to what to put in your.

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Dare to do be Different - 10 Spicy Romantic Valentine's Day Ideas

Bob Reno — Sun, 10 Feb 2008 01:06:00 +0000

Looking to do something different with your loved one this Valentine's Day? If not your loved one, how about your spouse? Kidding, just kidding! Here's a great list of suggestions from The Clothing Optional Terra Cotta Inn:

What is the perfect Valentine's gift? It is the gift of time with your spouse or partner. You need to disconnect from the world and just spend some fun time with each other. Forget work, kids, the phone, e-mails and everything else that get's in the way of spending quality time together.

Here are 10 fun, spicy Valentine's day suggestions on how to spend some romantic time together.

1). Dare to Bare. Try a vacation at one of the top clothing optional resorts in the U.S., The Terra Cotta Inn Clothing Optional Resort and Spa located in sunny Palm Springs, CA. http://sunnyfun.com Called the most mainstream nudist resort in America, it is perfect for couples trying topless or nude sunbathing for the first time. Nothing is more romantic than the both of you relaxing poolside, sipping ice cold beverages, wearing nothing but your birthday suits and smiles, and gazing romantically into each others beautiful eyes.

2). If you don't have time to travel to Palm Springs on February 14th, create your own clothing optional resort. Book a favorite bed and breakfast, boutique resort, or even chain hotel. Once you check in, crank up the room heat, and check out of your clothes for the weekend. Order in room service. Don't forget some candles. Lingerie can be optional.

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7 Ways to Better Sex: Are you looking for a surefire way to better sex?

Bob Reno — Mon, 04 Feb 2008 23:24:00 +0000

Does booze make sex better? Not according to Dr. Axel Goetz in this article from Men's Health that lists seven simple, but important, ways to improve your sex life. Here are the first two from his article:

If you're simply looking for ways to spice up your routine or boost your sexual energy levels, here are 7 simple ways to maximize your sexual health.
1. Live healthfully: Eat a balanced and varied diet, get plenty of rest, and exercise regularly.
Because sexuality is a component of good health, a healthy body can lead to a better sex life, so taking good care of your body is the first step. In fact, regular exercise may be one of the most important keys to healthy sexual function. Research suggests that people who exercise regularly have increased blood flow throughout their bodies, including to the genital area, which may help improve sex drive.
2. Turn off the tube.
And turn on your partner! Take an active role in your evening entertainment by skipping a night of television to make time for physical intimacy. TV viewing could be getting in the way of your love life in more ways than one: research suggests that it is associated with increased prevalence of erectile dysfunction.

Men, Women and Sex: How To Find Common Ground And Improve Your Love Life

Bob Reno — Mon, 04 Feb 2008 23:21:00 +0000

Great article by Margaret Paul, Ph.D. about the differences in men and women when it comes to sex drive and how common ground can be found to improve the experience for both parties.

The very real issue here, at least for most men under 40, is that they are biologically motivated and women are mostly emotionally motivated. Heterosexual women get turned on when their man is warm, open, caring, and personally powerful. Most women are not turned on by a man who is closed, distant, angry, blaming, or needy.
The problems of frequency can be resolved as men and women learn to understand and accept each other’s differences. Men need to understand and accept that women are not as biologically motivated as men are. Many women rarely even think about sex, while most men will tell you that they think about sex frequently throughout the day. When men understand that women are turned on by love, romance, emotional intimacy, warmth, caring, and personal power, then men may be motivated to learn to be the loving, powerful and romantic partners that women want and need.
When women can accept that men’s biology is very present for them, they can stop putting men down for it and start supporting their men in creating more emotional intimacy, romance, and personal power. When women criticize men instead of understanding and accepting them, they help to create some of the insecurity that is such a turn off to many women. When a woman can appreciate rather than demean her man for his sexuality, she can find ways of meeting his needs without feeling used.

Ladies: Will High Heels Really Improve Your Sex Life?

Bob Reno — Mon, 04 Feb 2008 23:17:00 +0000

Sounds like something a man would say, but research by an Italian urologist and self-professed lover of high heels, claims wearing them may improve your pelvic floor muscles and in doing so boost your sex life. Here's more from the BBC:

The shoe has been linked to a range of problems - from corns to schizophrenia. But in a letter to European Urology, Dr Maria Cerruto said her research showed it was time to stand up for the heel.
She said her study of 66 women under 50 found that those who held their foot at a 15 degree angle to the ground - the equivalent of a two inch heel - had as good posture as those who wore flat shoes, and crucially showed less electrical activity in their pelvic muscles.
This suggested the muscles were at an optimum position, which could well improve their strength and ability to contract. The pelvic floor muscles are an essential component of the female body. As well as assisting sexual performance and satisfaction, they provide vital support to the pelvic organs, which include the bladder, bowels and uterus.
But they often weaken after pregnancy and childbirth, and as the woman gets older. There are exercises to strengthen them, but Dr Cerruto hopes her findings may eliminate the need for these. "Women often have difficulty in carrying out the right exercises for the pelvic zone and wearing heels could be the solution," she said.
"Like many women, I like high-heeled shoes," she added. "It's good to know they have potential health benefits."