10 Ways To Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship - by Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb

10 Ways To Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship
By Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips.

Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’thave the magic and romance that it once had?

You’re not alone.

Living with the same partner for a long time can become stable and comfortable, and, as a result, can also kill the spark that made your relationship so special in the first place.

Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to reignite that magic:

1. SEND THEM A UNIQUE GIFT

Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner's workplace, such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so
they receive it in the middle of a busy day.

2. BECOME KIDS AGAIN

If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from their childhood.

3. FUN WITH WATER

On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out and throw one to your partner and then have a huge water fight.

4. A MASSAGE WITH A TWIST

Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an
appointment call: (Your Phone Number)

5. BRING BACK CHILDHOOD MEMORIES

Contact your partner's family and ask if there was anything she always wanted when she was a little girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you
were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wanted. You can do this for your man too.

6. STARE AT THE CLOUDS

Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie with your partner and look up at the clouds.

7. WALK ALONG THE BEACH

Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you watch the sun go down.

8. ORGANIZE A PICNIC ON A WARM SUMMER’S NIGHT

Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up at the stars together.

9. SHOW YOU’RE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR PARTNER

Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find it, with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming into my life."

10. SPICE UP YOUR LOVEMAKING

Probably the most profound way to rekindle the romance in your relationship is to spice up your lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little gift after you make love, try a new position, learn to give your partner a sensual massage before or
after, or just spend some time staring into each other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before making love.

Many people underestimate the affect passionate and intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you spice it up, chances are you and your partner will naturally do romantic things for each other. Why? Because passionate lovemaking connects two people in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing else can.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. To read more, visit: 500LovemakingTips.com

Turn Your Sex Fantasy Into a Reality

Can talking about your sexual fantasies help you in the bedroom? Here's an interesting take on the subject from IOL:

In our too-much-information world, we assume that an honest relationship should include disclosing intimate desires. But must we swap every thought that flits into our mind? I have the urge to tell, but not the courage (yet). And will confessing my fantasies usher in deeper understanding and better sex? It could go badly, too. (Will he wonder if I'm thinking about Ranger Rick instead of him?)
Deciding to open up isn't an easy call.
"Fantasising is a way to explore your sexuality that's free of consequence," says Jenny Bivona, doctoral candidate in clinical psychology.
"Physiologically, erotic imagery typically increases desire and speeds arousal." For the uninhibited, discussing erotic imagery is a quick way to get in the mood.
"Some couples love to discuss their fantasies," says Dr Stella Resnick, a clinical psychologist. "They find it a turn-on. It's playful and flirtatious, which is great for sex."
But will Steve find it playful and flirtatious that, during our relationship, I've been mauled by other men? Will my stories make him doubt my attraction to him?
"My husband is stung by any fantasies I mention," says my friend J, a writer. "But it's not like I'm actually going to have sex with Tiger Woods! In the spirit of try, try again, I revealed another: being with two men at once. He gaped at me like he wanted to leap out of bed."
The difference between playful and threatening depends on your partner and your relationship, explains Dr Sarah E Wright, expert on sexual fantasies. Her advice: "Before you share, ask, 'Do I trust my partner? Does he respect me?'" Logic might dictate that open-minded, confident, sexually informed men would be most receptive.

Basic Tips to Improve Your Sex Life

Does improving your sex life have to be difficult? No! Here are some simple tips from Looking Good - Feeling Great:

1. Play with sex toys. A varied selection of good sex toys can be a great way to add some spice to your sex life. And these days, it's even possible to find a range of sex toys stores online that will deliver straight to your home in discreet packaging.

2. Dress up. This may seem a bit too kinky - but if it's going to improve your sex life, what have you got to lose? Chat to your partner about your sexual fantasies. Whether it's bondage or cowboys-and-Indians, you could find the answer to your sex life woes.

Want to improve your sex life starting today? Check out the hottest (and we do mean HOTTEST!) new ebook out there Secrets of Sexual Addictions:

What Men Really Want From Love: How to Capitvate a Man

Did you know ... that you as a woman, by virtue of your femininity, have in your hands the delicious power to make a man fall in love with you, influence a man to your way of thinking, bring him to his knees, make him want to spend his life with you -- and want to fulfill your every desire? Here's more about "The Woman Men Adore ... and Never Want To Leave" by Licensed Professional Counselor Bob Grant:

The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave is the "first and last of its kind” relationship book that will show you how to completely understand men once and for all – and use that understanding to create the relationship of your dreams -- not in months or years, but immediately. That is why this is the last book on man-woman relationships that you’ll ever need to read. You’ll get everything you need right in this book to accomplish your relationship goals and completely change your life.

You've probably heard of best-selling books like "Men are from Mars, Women are From Venus" and "He's Just Not That Into You." Unlike those books and other relationship books on the market that point to the glaring differences between men and women ("Tell me something I didn't know!") The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave goes a step further and teaches you how to use those differences to your utmost advantage.

When you master the principles I teach in The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave, men won't be able to resist you, they'll do your bidding, and will feel powerless around you. Best of all, they're going to love every minute of it. Everybody wins!

FOXSexpert: Can You Eat Your Way to Better Sex?

There are many ways to improve your sex life. Apparently one of them is to change what you eat. Let's see what Fox News "Sexpert" Yvonne K. Fulbright has to say about the sex-ubject, I mean subject of better sex:

For centuries, humans have been fascinated by supposed links between certain substances and one’s sex drive, sexual performance and sexual desire. Yet only recently we’ve really been able to confirm what actually works and why.

While there’s no magical meal plan for easily enhancing sexual pleasure or attaining orgasm, you definitely can impact your sexual energy by incorporating certain ingredients into your diet. So here are a few do’s and don’ts when it comes to what to put in your.

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